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    Dancer_Engineer

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    Updated: Oct 25, 2024
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    Why is it sometimes so difficult to make people express their views / opinions?
    Is it the Shyness? Or lack of confidence? Or low self esteem?

    So how do you overcome these? Any quick recipe for it? 👀
    Hmmm, nope. It would require you to exercise your mind every now and then.

    So here are a few ways which will help you voice your views / opinions / ideas.

    And yes, CEans can share their experiences in a debate / discussion. That would help us all! 😎
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  • Dancer_Engineer

    Member • Jan 19, 2012

    1) Know what your aim is
    Make sure that before attempting to open your mouth and the words begin to flow that your 100% clear on the ideas that need to be expressed. Knowing where you want to go with the conversation will help to give you that extra confidence boost. When your audience can see that you are confident then they will more alert and want to listen.

    2) Ignore the definition of perfection
    Just sit and ask yourself, exactly what is perfect? Is there anyone out there that is 100% perfect? The fact is that we are only human and the reality is that not one of us is perfect without flaw. A small error is acceptable, there's no need to be stringent to the point that you begin to struggle voicing your opinion! As long as you know the topic of importance, a simple error can be overlooked.

    3) Keep it basic
    Think why you cut off when someone is voicing their opinion; remember your days at school and college with teachers lecturing in front of the class. Being lectured is boring! There really is no need to use big words. The simple facts voiced in an exciting manner will be more than enough to keep the audience tuned in. It's extremely annoying to have someone chatting away for 30 minutes, when the conversation could have been kept basic ending in half the time. Stay on the straight and narrow; turning left and right really is not going to turn into a success story. Don't make the listeners fall asleep!

    4) Pretend that you are alone 😁
    One of the major fears of having to express your opinion in front of a crowd is how you will be perceived by the audience. Can you really afford to let negativity like this get in the way?! Picture that you are alone and voicing your opinion to yourself! Your nerves will remain calm and allow you to remain focused on the topic that you need to address.

    5) Revise before you talk
    Yes simple revision of your conversation will help you take it to the next level. The very factor that you are confident and know what you are talking about will help significantly. When people that you're talking to know that you certain on what you're expressing then they will have faith in you. Think about possible questions that might arise from your topic of conversation and have the answers readily prepared in your head! Learning to voice your thoughts and opinions really is a simple process, we are all human and each of us has worries and fears. Talking should be fun not a drag; you should have confidence in yourself. If you know that the topic that you are addressing is of relevance than don't fear!


    Now, let the words flow! 👍
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  • Dancer_Engineer

    Member • Jan 19, 2012

    One very important point is try not to speak in an antagonistic note.
    Doesn't help! 😛
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  • Dancer_Engineer

    Member • Jan 19, 2012

    Still feeling shy? And nervous? And skeptical about your views? 😨

    Read <a href="https://www.trans4mind.com/self-confidence.html" target="_blank" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer">Self Confidence Tips - Build your self confidence!</a>.

    PS: Do not download the Hypnosis link or whatever that is. Just read what you need to and close the tab. 😛
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  • Mr.Don

    Member • Jan 20, 2012

    My trainer told me that "If you want to express your view then a KISS will do" which means "Keep it short and simple."

    "If your expressions are simple, short and meaningful then your confidence will creep up by doing the same more often."

    "The best thing to increase confidence is to do the thing you fear the most." 😀
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